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Deanna Dikeman, Leaving and Waving 7 (1991)
This is the ninth post in my “Favorite Photo Reviews” series. Today’s pick is Eren Orbey’s “A Photographer’s Parents Wave Farewell” (“Photo Booth,” newyorker.com, March 4, 2020), a review of Deanna Dikeman’s portrait series Leaving and Waving, currently on view at deannadikeman.com.
In 1990, when Dikeman’s parents were in their early seventies, they sold her childhood home, in Sioux City, Iowa, and moved to a bright-red ranch house in the same town. Dikeman, a photographer then in her thirties, spent many visits documenting the idyll of their retirement. Orbey writes,
At the end of their daughter’s visits, like countless other mothers and fathers in the suburbs, Dikeman’s parents would stand outside the house to send her off while she got in her car and drove away. One day in 1991, she thought to photograph them in this pose, moved by a mounting awareness that the peaceful years would not last forever. Dikeman’s mother wore indigo shorts and a bright pink blouse that morning; her father, in beige slacks, lingered behind her on the lawn, in the ragged shade of a maple tree. The image shows their arms rising together in a farewell wave. For more than twenty years, during every departure thereafter, Dikeman photographed her parents at the same moment, rolling down her car window and aiming her lens toward their home. Dikeman’s mother was known to scold her daughter for her incessant photography. “Oh, Deanna, put that thing away,” she’d say. Both parents followed her outdoors anyway.
Orbey says Dikeman’s Leaving and Waving “compresses nearly three decades of these adieux into a deft and affecting chronology.” He says,
Each image reiterates the quiet loyalty of her parents’ tradition. They recede into the warm glow of the garage on rainy evenings and laugh under the eaves in better weather. In summer, they blow kisses from the driveway. In winter, they wear scarves and stand behind snowbanks. Inevitably, they age. A few of Dikeman’s portraits, cropped to include the interior of the departing car, convey the parallel progress of her own life. The hand that clutches her camera lens, sometimes visible in the side mirrors, eventually sheds its wedding band. Early photographs show the matted fur of an old dog’s ears and the blurred face of her baby son. In later shots, the boy is grown and behind the wheel, backing down the driveway as Dikeman photographs her elderly parents from the passenger seat.
That passage is inspired! It beautifully captures the melancholy essence of Dikeman’s pictures - life as a sequence of farewells - the sadness of human transience.
Orbey’s piece is brilliantly illustrated with twenty-one photos from Dikeman’s series, arranged in chronological order, starting with the first “farewell” in 1991. In 2009, her father dies. In subsequent shots, only the mother is present (sometimes accompanied by a relative). Then in 2017, she dies. The series ends with a shot of the house, no one in the driveway, no one waving good-bye. Orbey writes,
Most of the images in “Leaving and Waving” are offhand snapshots, captured in the brief moments of a car’s retreat. Only the final shot, of an empty driveway, allowed Dikeman more time. After her mother’s funeral, she set up a tripod on the street and shot fifty frames while her sister waited at a nearby Starbucks. Last spring, her son left her own home, in Columbia, Missouri, to drive east for his first job out of college. They loaded up his car with belongings, and, as it idled in the driveway, he looked at his mother and asked, “Aren’t you going to take a picture?” Dikeman, a bit surprised, rushed inside to retrieve her camera and, for the first time, accept a fresh role in an old ritual.
A perfect ending to an exquisite piece, reminding us that photography is essentially an elegiac art.
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